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　　标题：12SignsYouveDoneWellinLife
　　作者：MoSeetubtim
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　　1。Youfeelproudofyourself。
　　Regardlessofwhereyouareinlife，youfeelproudofyourselfforhavingachievedwhatyouhaveandhavingdonewhatyouvedonewhetheritsgoodorbad。Becauselifeisnotaboutgoingfromonepointtothenext。Lifeisaboutthejourneyandthekeytolovinglifeistoenjoythejourney。
　　Youreproudofyourselfandforeverythingyouvebeenthroughbecauseeveryturningpointinlifeleadsyoutoanother。Everychangeleadstoanewdestiny。Whenonedoorcloses，anotherdooropens。Nomatterwhathappenedinthepast，youarewhoyouarebecauseofeverythingthatshappenedandyoureproudofwhoyouvebecome。
　　Lifeis10percentwhathappenstoyouand90percenthowyoureacttoit。
　　CharlesR。Swindoll
　　2。Youfeelhappywithwhereyouareandwhereyoureheaded。
　　Youknowthatyouvedonewellinlifewhenyourehappywithwhereyouareandwhereyoureheaded。Youmightnotbewhereyoudreamofultimatelyachievingbutyourehappythatyoureontherightpath。Youknowwhoyouareandyouredoingthingsthatalignwithyourvalues。Youdontdothingsthatgoagainstwhoyouareatthecore。Youareintouchwithyoursoul，withyourself，andyouknowthatnomatterwhathappens，youwillbeokay。Lifewillleadyoudowntherightpath。
　　3。Youarebetterthanyouwereyesterday，lastweek，andlastyear。
　　Youmightnotbethebestyoucouldbeyetbutatleastifyourebetterthanyouwereyesterdayandthedaybefore，thenyouvedonewellinlife。Sometimeswedostupidthings。Sometimeswedothingsweshouldnothavedone。Butaslongaswerealizethisandaimtobecomeabetterpersoneachdaymentally，emotionally，physically，andintellectually，thenyourefurtheralonginlifethanmostpeople。
　　Theminuteyoustopimprovingyourselfistheminuteyourlifebecomesstale。Neverstopchallengingyourselftobecomethebestyoucanbe。
　　MoSeetubtim
　　4。Yourrelationshipwithyourfamilyhasimproved。
　　Noteveryonegrowuphavingtheperfectrelationshipwiththeirfamily。Mostofthetimewedont。Personalityclashesarecommonoccurrences。Letalonehavingcontrollingparentsorabusiveparentswhodontseemtohaveitalltogether。Whilegrowingup，sometimesweneedtopushthemawayinorderforustogrowandbecomementallystrongandwell。Sometimeswehavetoignoretheminordertogetridofthepainandtheburdeninsideourheart。Butaswegetolder，werealizethatnomatterhowbadourparentsmightseematthattime，theyreourparents。Theymightnotbeamazingatparenting。Theymightnotbeasselflessandcaringasotherparentsare。Butatleasttheyhaveourbestinterestatheart。Andevenifwedont，welearntoacceptit。Welearntoaccepttherealityandunderstandwhytheyarethewaytheyare。Welearntounderstandtheircircumstancesandupbringingthatshapedthemuptobewhotheyare。Wearenowmatureandwiseenoughtolearntomanageouremotionsandhandleconflictswiththeonlypeopleinourlifewecannevercompletelydetachfromourparents。
　　Aswegetolder，werealizethattheresnotmuchtimeleftforustobewiththem。Soinsteadoffeelingbadaboutthehurtfulpast，werecreatethebondwithourparentsandmakesuretheyknowhowthankfulwearefortheloveandcaretheyveevergivenus。Becauseafterall，wewouldntbeheretodaywithoutthem。
　　5。Yourepassionateaboutyourjob，yourhobbies，andyourlife。
　　Afterall，whatistheretoenjoyifwedontenjoylife？Youknowyouvedonewellinlifewhenyouloveyourjob，havehobbiesthatyouenjoydoing，andjustlovewakingupeveryday。Youfeelexcitedaboutwhatthedaywillbringandwhomyouwillmeet。Isntlifejustwonderful？
　　Yourworkisgoingtofillalargepartofyourlife，andtheonlywaytobetrulysatisfiedistodowhatyoubelieveisgreatwork。Andtheonlywaytodogreatworkistolovewhatyoudo。Ifyouhaventfoundityet，keeplooking。Dontsettle。Aswithallmattersoftheheart，youllknowwhenyoufindit。
　　SteveJobs
　　6。Youliveinthepresent。
　　Insteadoffocusingonthepastandwishthingsweredifferentorworrytoomuchaboutthefuture，youfocusonthepresent。Yourealizethateverythingisfleetingandthatlifeisuncertain。Theonlythingyouhavecontroloveristhepresentmoment。Youknowyouvedonewellwhenyoufocusonmakingthemomentinfrontofyouthebestmomentitcouldbe。Youaremindfulandknowthatourwanderingthoughtscancreateillusionalemotionsthatshouldntbetheretostartwith。Theonlywayforustotrulyenjoylifeistoliveinthepresent。
　　Lifeiswhathappenstoyouwhileyourebusymakingotherplans。
　　JohnLennon
　　7。Youknowwhoyourtruefriendsare。
　　Oneofthemostbeautifulthingsinlifeistruefriendship。Theyarethepeoplewhoacceptyouforwhoyouareandnomatterwhathappenstheyretherebyyourside。Truefriendsaretherarestgiftsandweshouldshowourappreciationmoreoften。Youknowyouvedonewellinlifewhenyouknowyouhaveagroupofpeopleyoucanturntotocelebrateyoursuccessandtobeyourshouldertocryon。Theyarethepeopleyoucantrustwholeheartedly。Havingthesepeopleinlifemeansthatyoureatruefriendtothemyourself。Beingatruefriendisareciprocalprocess。Youjustdontformastrongfriendshipifyouonlytakeandtake，youhavetogiveandyouhavetotake。Ifyouhaveagroupofpeoplewhoaretherebyyoursideforyearstocome，youknowyouvedonewellinlife。
　　8。Yourealizethatyouvebecomemorenonjudgmentalandopenmindedovertheyears。
　　Oneofthethingsthatcanshowourmaturityishowwecareforothers。Overthepastyears，haveyoureyesbecomemoreopen？Hasyourhorizonbeenbroadened？Haveyoubecomemoreopenminded，nonjudgmental，andmoreunderstandingoftheworldandofpeoplearoundyou？
　　Nomatterwhoyouareasaperson，nomatterwhatyoudo，ifyouhavenosympathyforothersandnounderstandingoftheworld，thenyoumightbemissingoutonsomethinggoodinlife。Lifeismorethanjustaboutworkandplay。Lifeisaboutexperiencingandunderstandingotherhumanbeingsandotherculture。Lifeisaboutexperiencinglove，joy，happiness，tears，andsadness。Lifeisaboutescapingfromsufferingasmuchasitisaboutpleasure。
　　Youknowyouvedonewellinlifewhenyounolongerjudgepeopleforwhattheyrewearingorforwhattheyredoing。Rather，youtrytounderstand。Afterall，everyonesstoryisdifferent。Youneverknowwhattheyvebeenthroughandwhathappensbehindcloseddoor。
　　9。Youknowhowtomanageyouremotionalwellbeingaswellasyourmentalwellbeing。
　　Asgoodasitsoundstobesmartandsuccessful，itisneveratruesuccessifyourhomeisamess，yourfamilylifeisinchaos，andyouremotionalhealthisnothingtobeproudof。Youremotionalintelligenceisevenmoreimportantthanyourintellectualintelligence。Itisnevergoodtobeanaggressive，abusivebosswhoissuccessfulandcancloseanydeals。Itisnevernicetobeastrongbreadwinnerofthefamilywhenyouabuseyourwifeandscreamatherunderpressureandstress。
　　Youknowyouvedonewellinlifewhenyouhaveyouremotionalwellbeingundercontrolandwhenyounolongerfeellikeyourefallingapartinsidebecauseyourebreakingdown。Stressissometimesineviinlife。However，learningtomanageitandgettingbetteratthisiscrucialandessentialtoahappyandhealthyliving。
　　10。Youdothingsthataregoodforyourself，body，andmind。
　　Somepeopleworktoohardthattheyforgettotakecareofthemostimportantthingsintheirlifetheirhealth，body，andmind。Withoutgoodhealth，lifeisnotenjoyable。Whatsthepointofbeingwealthyifyoudonthavetimetoenjoylifewiththepeopleyoulove？Youknowyouvedonewellinlifeifyoumakeyourhealthandwellbeingyourpriority。Youmakesureyoueatwell，exercise，andtakesometimeofftorelaxandrecharge。Youmeditate。Youread。Youdothingsthatvitalizeyoursoul。Attheendoftheday，nomatterhowbigyourhomeis，yourbodyisyourtruehome。
　　11。Youdontregretanythingyouvedonebecauselifeisaboutmovingforward，notbackward。
　　Therearealwaysthingswedidinthepastthatwearenotproudof。Ifwecouldturnbacktime，wemightactuallynotstartdoingit。However，thereisnopointthinkingaboutitthisway。Ifyouresmartenough，youlearnfromyourpastandhavebecomeastrongerandbetterpersonbecauseofit。Theresnopointinlookingbackandregretting，becauseeverythinghappensforareasonanditleadsyoutowhereyouaretoday。
　　Youknowyouvedonewellinlifeifallyoulookforwardtoismovingforward。Youfocusonmakingtodayandtomorrowbetter。Thatstheonlyoutlookonlifethatoneshouldhave。
　　12。Youfeelthankfulandareexcitedaboutlifeandthefuture。
　　Yourlifecanbetrulyamazingandwonderful，however，ifyoudontappreciatewhatyouhave，thenyoudneverfeeltrulyhappy。Youknowyouvedonewellinlifeifyoufeelthankfulforbeingaliveandappreciatewhatyouhave，ratherthanlookingatwhatyoudonthave。Lifeisagiftinitself。Thekeytothisistolookatitwithgratitude。Afterall，itiswhatitis。Everythingandeverypersoncomeintoyourlifetoteachyousomething。Seeitasapassingexperienceandlearnfromit。Bethankfulforwhateverhashappenedbecausewithoutityouwouldnothavegrownandbeaswellequippedasyouaretoday。
　　Yyoucanonlyconnectthemlookingbackwards。Soyouhavetotrustthatthedotswillsomehowconnectinyourfuture。Youhavetotrustinsomethingyourgut，destiny，life，karma，whatever。Thisapproachhasneverletmedown，andithasmadeallthedifferenceinmylife。
　　SteveJobs